top of page

Indian wedding cultures and its traditions

Writer's picture: Debadrita KarmakarDebadrita Karmakar

An Indian wedding is more than simply a ceremony; it's also a lavish event as well as a beautiful union of two souls. The wedding is a celebration of an everlasting tie and the coming together of two families.


People from all around the world have been drawn to Indian weddings because they are so colourful. Indian weddings are known for their grandiose features, such as multi-page invitations, a huge number of guests, and a costly feast.


Every ceremony in an Indian wedding represents something different, and each rite has its own meaning. Even in the Saat Pheras, each circle represents a pledge that the bride and groom will take. Indian weddings often last until 3 a.m. because the rituals are so intricate.


Indian weddings are so energetic, emotion-ridden spectacle, whether it's the dancing at the Sangeet or Baraat, the breathtakingly beautiful Mandap, lavish attires, the excitement around Juta Chupaai, the intimate Mangal Pheras, or the passionate Vidaai.


Besides the wedding day ceremonies, the Indian wedding includes numerous other rites that take place over several days prior to the wedding.


The following is a list of some of the Indian wedding's cultures and traditions:


The Muhurata - The date and timing of the wedding are extremely important in Indian marriages. Indians pre-determine a time and date for any event, which is usually determined by an astrologer. The couple's date of birth is used to choose an auspicious time for the Indian wedding, known as a Muhurata.


Roka ceremony - Roka is the first official event of an Indian wedding. It serves as a precursor to marriage. In the Roka ritual, both families join together to bless the pair and show their acceptance and consent for their union. Families give gifts and sweets, and they spend time together getting to know one another better.


Pre-wedding photo shoot - Now, people say an Indian wedding is a full-fledged extravaganza for a reason: the bride and groom are no less than the hero and heroine of a Bollywood film, as seen by the pre-wedding photoshoot. This practice has grown so popular in recent years that photographers and venues are frequently booked months in advance.


Bachelorette party - The wedding is approaching, and you've completed all of your shopping, but your friends won't let you relax!


A bachelor party is usually thrown for the groom by a friend, and it might be an evening party in the groom's hometown or a lavish destination party! Groomsmen usually attend bachelor parties to warm their friend up for the upcoming huge responsibilities!


Sangeet - Before the wedding, there is a Sangeet, which is a pre-party. It's one of the most well-liked and enjoyable aspects of an Indian wedding. The bride's family puts on a show for the groom's family, which includes everything from dancing to singing folk songs. A joyful round of singing and dancing brings together close family members and friends.


Mehndi - Mehndi is an Indian wedding rite that is solely attended by the women of the family. This usually happens a day or two before the wedding. The bride's hands and feet are covered with elaborate and gorgeous henna throughout this ritual. This event also includes singing and dancing.


Haldi - A Haldi ritual is an Indian wedding tradition in which family members apply a turmeric, oil, and water combination to the bride and groom's skin and clothing. As they apply Haldi, relatives and family members bestow blessings on them. This is thought to make their complexion sparkle in preparation for the wedding later that day.


Groom’s arrival - The groom, his family, and relatives arrive at the wedding venue with a band and baaja, known as the Vara yatra, in a Hindu wedding. This is the much-discussed baraat, which is attended by the groom's family.


Groom’s welcome - When the ceremony's hero, "the groom," arrives at the venue, he is unable to enter without paying the toll. Now is the time for the bride's side to extract some money from the groom's wallet, and this is when the art of the deal, the true bargaining, comes into action.


Bride’s grand entry - Everyone is anticipating the bride's spectacular entrance after the groom arrives at the wedding venue!


Varmala ceremony - Varmala is an Indian wedding ritual and the first ceremony that takes place in front of a large number of guests at the wedding location. This occurs when the bride, who arrives on stage with her sisters, joins the groom on stage.


Jutachuppi - The mischievous sister-in-law hides the groom's shoes shortly before he comes onto the mandap, which is known as Jutta Chupai or Jutti Chupai. It's an art because both sides have tricks up their sleeves because it's not about money but about ultimate pride.


Kanyadaan and saat phere - This is the most crucial part of an Indian wedding, as well as the most emotional for the bride, because it is here that her father gives her away in a ceremony known as the Kanyadaan.


After this, they prepare for the Saatphere, in which the bride and husband take turns walking around the sacred fire. Every round indicates something they must do for one another, essentially the seven vows that must be taken.


Mangalsutra and sindoor time - A Mangalsutra is a black and gold beaded necklace worn by the groom around the bride's neck. This is a crucial step in the Indian wedding ceremony's completion.

The sindoor, like the Mangalsutra, is used to indicate a woman's marital status. The bride's hair is marked with sindoor, a reddish-orange powder, to indicate that she is now married.


Importance of Wedding budget


When planning a wedding, one of your main tasks should be to create a budget. Making a benchmark for your spending, whether for a large or little event, will make it easier for you and your partner in the long term, and it can also serve as a starting point for you to become accustomed to creating budgets in your marriage.


Recent Posts

See All

Σχόλια


bottom of page